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From: gexie@webtv.net
(kayla robinson)
Date: Sat, 27 Dec 1997 13:51:43 -0500
Subject: Hello Brandi.
Good Afternoon.... Brandi, My name is Kayla. My
Papaw told me that you and I should exchange e-mail.
You told my papaw that you got a new bike for
christmas. Did you get to go to the school track and
ride today? I also got a new one and a new coat. Did
you get any new Pets? I got a new cat and I call him
Louie. Did you get any snow yet? It is snowing a
little bit here. We may need to get a sled. *smile*
I will close for now.
Your new friend. ~ Kayla

Date: Sat, 27 Dec 1997 ~ Dear Kayla;
Hello Kayla. *S* You are my very first friend my own
age who wrote to me. People write to me - but they
are grown-ups. I hope we will write to each other
often. Can I put our mail in my on-line journal? I
would like to do that if you would like to see it
there. But it's okay to be private too. Please tell
me! - okay?
It snowed here today - and the flurries have been
coming all day - so we couldn't go to the school
where I ride around the track. Do you use training
wheels? I do. My bike is purple, and pink and white.
It has big white tires. My Grandfather who I call my
Pappy, picked it out for me. I wear knee and elbow
pads and special gloves and a helmet. EVERYBODY
should ALWAYS wear a helmet - I saw that on Rescue
911 - and I will always wear one because I saw what
can happen! I used to get sick a lot too.... but
this year I have been a lot better. Maybe by the
time you are eight years old like me - you will not
be as sick either. I have asthma sometimes. I used
to have seizures too - but it only sometimes happens
now. I used to have to take medicine all the time
for it - but now I don't have to. When my mother was
carrying me inside her - she used drugs that were
bad for us, but she doesn't do that anymore. But I
was born addicted to them and when I was born and
didn't have those drugs in me anymore - my body went
through withdrawal and there were terrible seizures
and I almost died then. Something happened to my
brain from the seizures that happened when I did -
and that made me have cerebral-palsy. I was even
paralyzed some for the first year and I could not
swallow very well for many years. That was why I
came to live with my mommy so she could help me to
live and get better. Now though - I am much better
in that too. I live with my mothers' mommy. I call
her mommy too, like my mother does. My mommy has had
me all my life and so she seems like my mother to me
and I call my other mother Cathy. I don't see her
very often. My mommy, who is my Nana (grandmother),
loves Cathy and me both so it is like we are sisters
- (kind-of). I hope your grandfather knows about
things like seizures and cerebral palsy and can help
you understand about them for me.
I am so happy that you wrote to me Kayla. Do you
have a homepage too where I could see a picture of
you? Mommy says I need to stop for now because she
needs to put her feet up again. I wish I could do
all of the writing myself and then I could say more.
I like having an e-mail friend. Mommy has a special
one called Snicki who lives in Arkansas and they
write LOTS of e-mail to each other every day! Mommy
shares some of the things they say. Snicki used to
be a clown and even sent us some of the television
shows she was in when she was a clown.
I am happy that we can be friends, Kayla ~~~ From
Brandi

Date: Thursday, January 1.....
Subject: Re: Hello Brandi.
Hi Brandi. I am so happy to have you for my email
friend. I am spending the night with my Papaw and
mamaw. My mother, father and I lived in the same
house with them untill November of this year. It has
really been a big adjustment for all of us. I spend
school nights with my mother and daddy and weekends
with Papaw and Mamaw. I will write to you as often
as I can . I do not have access to the internet at
my home. You may put our mail in your journal if you
wish. I do not have a web page. We have webtv. I
have never had my hair cut so it is very long. It is
brown and I have brown eyes. We had 8 inches of snow
at my house. I live in western N.C. There is over 2
feet of snow on the higher mountain peaks. Today I
made a snowman with my papaw. Mamaw and I found some
icicles on some shrubs. They were very big. My bike
is pink with white and a little bit of orange. I
still have my traing wheels on too. I haven't gotten
to ride it much because of the weather. EVERYONE
should wear helments and knee and elbow pads. I am
sorry you have had so much sickness in your life and
I am happy you are much better. Your mommy and pappy
are very special people and I know they love you
very much. I have had phneumonia 2 times since
october of this year also strep throat. I don't like
being sick.
I am happy your mother doesn't do drugs any more. I
am also glad you love your mother. My grandparents
have a neighbor who has cerebral palsy. She
graduated from highschool last year. she also lived
with her grandparents. My mamaw is typing for me
since I am 6 and need help spelling some words. I
like to use the keyboard. Mamaw and I do crafts
together. We like to take nature walks . I like
animals. I have a new kitty. His name is Louie. He
is black and white. Do you have pets? I think it
would be fun to have Snicki for a friend.Bet it was
fun for her to be a clown. Hope this letter isn't
too long.
Your friend Kayla

Date: Friday, 2 January ~ Hello Kayla;
----> I am so happy
to have you for my email friend.
<Me too, Kayla> *
----> I spend school nights with my mother and
daddy. ^----> I bet
you are happy with a new home and friends. Maybe if
we ever go through N.C. we could meet! My mommy
& pappy love to go to Brookgreen Gardens and we
might be going there again this year. It is in S.C.
- so maybe we go near you? ---->
and weekends with Papaw and Mamaw.
^----> But I bet you like coming back to your
other home too? Do you have many friends around
where your grandparents live?
* ----> It is brown
and I have brown eyes.
^----> My hair is long and brown and I have brown
eyes too> ---->
We had 8 inches of snow at my house. <That
is how many inches we had too. Then the wind was
blowing and it got deeper in some places.
---->
I have had phneumonia 2 times since october of this
year also strep throat. I don't like being sick. ^---->
I had pneumonia too before. And strep throat (and
that hurts a lot). I don't like it when I get sick
either. I am getting much healthier now that I am
older! If you started school this year it may be why
you got sick. It happens more when you first start
going to school with so many kids.
*----> My
grandparents have a neighbor who has cerebral palsy.
<Mine is a lot
better. I used to be a little paralyzed and I could
not swallow any foods until I was four years old. I
had most of it like a milkshake. But then with
therapy, I learned to swallow better. It is not as
comfortable for me as other people, and I chew my
food a lot and it takes me longer to eat - but I eat
everything now. I am allergic to some things so I
don't eat them.> *
----> Mamaw and I do crafts together. ^---->
My mommy is an artist and I like to do art too. I
have to practice a lot but I like it very much so I
don't mind.> *---->
We like to take nature walks .
^---->We do too. We
live in the middle of mountains and National Forests
here in the Shenandoah valley and we go places here
a lot. > *---->
I like animals. ^---->
Me too! We have three dogs, Pinki, Tippi and ChiCho.
We have a lot of trees and shrubs around our house
and lots of birds stay in them and they are so
pretty and they sound so pretty too.> *---->
I have a new kitty. His name is Louie.
^----> Does he live
in your new home with you - or at your grandparents
where you visit. Does he go back and forth with you
form the homes? I have the Sesame Street UNO game
and we are enjoying playing it a lot! We also got
MYSTERY MANSION game for Christmas from my Aunt
Jeanne - but we haven't played it yet. We might do
that today because Peach doesn't have to go to work
at Food Lion and she will be here and it takes at
least three people to play. I am so anxious to play
that one since we got it - but because of the
holidays - Peach has worked every night and sleeps
in the days. Tomorrow is Peachs' birthday and we are
giving her another new game - she likes games - but
she likes puzzles more but she already has too many
of them and has many that are not even open yet!
Bye for now, from Brandi

Date: Friday, January 2, 1998...... Hi Brandi
What City is Brookgreen Gardens near ? I live 22
miles west of Asheville N.C. My grandparents live
about 11 miles west of Asheville. We are about an
hour away from Greenville S.C. It would be nice to
meet you. I have a cousin who lives next door to my
grandparents. she is 2 years old. There aren,t any
more children that live near here. We like to play
together even though we are just a little bit
jealous of each other. I was in kindergarten last
year. I was sick a lot then too. I hope I will soon
be free of all these viruses. I,m glad you are doing
better with your ceberal palsy. I like to draw. My
mother does too. Does mommy paint pretty pictures?
We live near woodlands. We have deer coming down
into people,s yards looking for food. Some areas
have Black Bears visiting also. My mamaw was in The
Shenandoa Valley when she was a young girl. She says
it is very beautiful and would like to visit there
again. My kitty stays at my new home. My mother
takes care of him for me. We also have two dogs.
Joker is half wolf and Collie. He is very big. Niki
is a mix too. She is part pitt bull. My mother has 6
ferrits. They are all albinos. Who is Peach? Is she
your aunt? My mother worked at food lion when she
was in high school. Now she does,t work .My uncle
Edward shares a birthday with Peach. His birthday is
tomorrow too. We are going to make him a cake today.
Do you like The Power Rangers? Mamaw made some
treats for the birds. She covered pinecones with
peanutbutter then rolled them in bird seed. We like
to watch them eat.
Bye , Kayla

Date:
Saturday, January 3, 1998...... Hello Kayla;
---->
What City is Brookgreen Gardens near ?
^---->Winnsboro. You
can read about them here
http://www.lowcountry-sc.com/brookgreen/ ---->
It would be nice to meet you.
<That would be fun! ---->
I was in kindergarten
to years ago. <I was in a special class and
started school when I was only 3 years old. I have
been going to school for 5 years!
----> I like to
draw. My mother does too. Does mommy paint pretty
pictures? ^---->
We draw together. She had had surgery on her hands
too, and now she is doing a lot of art work with her
computer instead. She had to have her thumb-joints
taken out. She still sketches though.
---->
My mother has 6 ferrets. ^---->
They are so cute! Like RikiTikiTavi! (Mongoose
story) ---->
Who is Peach? Is she your aunt?
^----> Yes.
----> Do you like
The Power Rangers? ^---->
No. I don't watch those kind of cartoons or shows. I
like the Superman movie though.
----> Mamaw made
some treats for the birds.
^----> We think that
sounds neat and are going to try making some like
that when it snows again. We always throw out extra
food, cereal and seed for them when the ground is
all covered up. We have three big bird feeders we
keep filled up. ---->
We like to watch them eat.
^----> We do too. We
go to the river/creek and feed a big flock of wild
geese and ducks in the next town too. There are too
many of them though! They come up and try to take
the food away before you throw it. We are playing
games with Peach and it is her birthday. I need to
go now - we are playing UNO before dinner.
Bye for now, Kayla.....From, Brandi

Date:
Sunday, January 4, 1998 ....Hi Brandi,
I am in bed now but mamaw is typing for me now since
she has all her chores finished and answered all her
email. I don,t watch Power Rangers anymore either.
There are lots of shows I don't watch because they
make me have bad dreams. Also we don't approve of
some of the contents. We have a small lake near my
old home. There are many geese that live there year
round. We like to feed them also. Every evening
about the same time they fly over our house. I love
to see them fly in formation. I also like the way
they honk. I bet you had fun playing games with
Peach. My uncle ate dinner with us and I got to play
with my little cousin. We had chocolate cake for
dessert.
Bye , Kayla

Date:
Sunday, January 4, 1998..... Subject: Re: Going back
to school,
Dear Brandi, I like you Brandi very much. I have to
go back home but I will see you next weekend. Do you
have to go to school monday? I do. I wish we had
more time off.
Your Friend, Kayla

Date: Sunday
January 4, 1998...... Hello Kayla;
I am sorry that I am so late answering your mail...
I see that we have come on at about the same time !
We have been palying and didn't have much time for
the computer - but I got some new software CDs for
Christmas and we are going to try them right now. I
hope that you all got to check out Brookgreen
Gardens at the address I sent to you? I wish I could
stay home more days too, but I do like school and my
friends there. My mommy also comes once a week to
have lunch in the cafeteria with me. I will write to
you when you come back to your grandparents?
These are hugs ----> {{{Kayla}}} from Brandi

Date:
Sunday, January 11, ....... HI BRANDI
I LIKE YOU. My name is Kayla and I went to my little
cousins' birthday party. Her name is Hannah. She is
4 years old. And I like her. We have fun together.
Hannah said someone took her dog. She misses her
doggie. It made her sad and mad too. I am mad too.
We are looking for clues to see who got her dog.
Hannah prays for her dog to come home. Mamaw and I
took Gran to Hannah's birthday party. Hannah is her
great granddaughter just like me. Gran is 78 years
old.

Date:
Monday, January 12, 1998
..... Hello Kayla;
I wondered why you didn't write before, I thought
maybe you didn't come to your Mamaws' this weekend.
I didn't get this letter until tonight. I looked for
you to write all weekend. And now you did. But I
missed you. I am so very sorry about Hannahs' dog. I
would not like it if one of our dogs was taken.
Especially if it was ChiCho!.... He is the little
black Chichuahua one. He is very cute and little. He
only weighs 4 pounds. He wrestles with my hands and
playbites me. He loves his little squeaky toys. I
will be putting a picture of him up on my page soon.
We are doing my page this week to begin 1998 with my
journal now that mommy can go out there to the big
computer. She does the e-mail on her laptop. Did you
read about little Cameron and see his picture when
we sent out the address? If you did not - I hope you
will do that - he is so cute and he might die
because he needs surgery that is very dangerous for
him. Ask your grandparents to look on our page for
CAMERON JONES. His surgery was supposed to be today
but he got sick and is running a fever and they had
to wait now till it stops. We are praying for him
and for his family. Maybe you would like to do that
too and maybe send him some e-mail at the hospital.
You can click on a little fairy on his page and it
will address his mail to the hospital for you and
you only have to say what you want to say and send
it. ~ Love, Brandi

Date: Sat,
24 Jan 1998 14:44:07 -0500
Subject: Re: Please Get Well;
Hi Brandi
I am sorry it took so long to answer your mail. We
have been sick for a
very long time. I hope that we get better soon so we
can e-mail more often. I have had this
bad cough for two weeks and nothing the doctors
gave me seems to help. Sometimes I cough so hard at
night I vomit. It hurts so bad, Are you getting any
better? I hope so it is no fun being sick so much. I
do hope your Mommy is much better also.
We will pray for you to be better soon.
Your friend Kayla.

Date: Sun,
25 Jan 1998 16:08:06 -0800
Subject: Re: Please Get Well;
Dear Friend, Kayla;
I am so sorry that you are sick too. I wondered why
you did not write. I thought you just did not visit
your grandparents again yet. Lots of kids everywhere
are sick. My mommy has been giving me herbs and I
got better real good but she didn't. Write to me
when you visit again or when you feel better.
We don't have any school Monday or Tuesday, but I am
better anyway and could have gone back. Mommy says
the extra two days off will help me to be stroinger
before I go back. Is your school having those two
teachers' work days too? Mommy said that if she was
better today - we would have sent you a pretty
e-card - but she is running a fever again and that
makes the screen on the monitor hurt her eyes so I
won't talk anymore this time. ~ Love, Brandi
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The Power of Love gives.
The Love of Power takes.
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Date: Wed,
28 Jan 1998 14:50:29 -0500
Subject: How are you?
I am here
because we have a really big snow. I got snow blind
. we have no electricity at my house. I got the lion
king . ~ Love Kayla

Date: Mon, 2
Feb 1998 16:19:26 -0500
Subject: Just to say hello
I'm sad because your pappy died. we like you. I want
you to get better .
love Kayla.

Dear Kayla;
I am sorry
not to answer this message till now - but wanted to
let you know that it was not my Pappy who died... He
is my NaNas' husband, Roger. I call my Nana - Mommy,
but her husband is my grandfather and I call him
Pappy. My Papaw is my fathers' father. I called my
fathers' mother and father Mamaw and Papaw... That
is who died. He was 63 and had a heart attack in his
sleep. He wasn't feeling good the day before that,
but when he called the doctors' office, they
couldn't get him an appointment until the next day
at 10:30. But he died at about 5 o'clock before
then. I think he should have gone to the emergency
room at the hospital when the doctor told him to
wait until the next day, don't you? But he is in his
new home now and I will see him there when I go to
be with God and Jesus too. I am sad about my Papaw
too. Your flowers which you and your grandparents
sent to the funeral were very pretty. He only had
four baskets of flowers. I thought that was sad. At
my Uncle Erics' funeral there was a whole bunch of
them and we had to take a van just for them when we
took him up to Freesoul Rock - and then we all took
the flowers out of the containers and threw them off
out there where his ashes were. My mommy is feeling
better now - but at the funeral it was cold and
windy and she has to get better again after that
time. She is on an antibiotic. We might see each
other this June! Won't that be lots of fun?
We have been out of school for two days here - are
you there?
Love, Brandi

Date: Sun, 8
Feb 1998 14:26:41 -0500
Subject: Re: Just to say hello
Dear Brandi
It is ok for you not to answer til now. You have had
a lot of sickness along with the death of your Papaw
Ross. I just got to come to my Papaws and mamaws
late last night. We got up this morning to find that
mamaw was real sick again like your mommy was last
week with high fever and vomiting which is not good
because she has been sick to long.
Some one should have taken your Papaw Ross to the
emergency room. It is not good when the doctors are
so busy. So many of our old people have to go
untreated and this happens. It is a sad time for all
of us when someof our friends
loved ones go to be with GOD,but also imakes us
happy to know they are going to be with our GOD in
HEAVEN where they will not need any doctors because
GOD will be taking care of them there. I am sorry
that we got mixed up on which one of your
grandfathers had went to be with GOD please forgive
me. Yes it will be a great day in heaven when we can
meet with our lovedones again. The flowers were sent
with our love and to let you know that our hearts
were sad for you and to let you know that we love
you very much. It is sad that there was no more
flowers than four. I guess that people were to busy
to notice. I wonder how they will feel when one of
their loved ones goes to be withGOD in heaven? Your
Papaw Ross didn't really need the flowers because he
was already with GOD and was walking down the
pathway which would be lined with beautiful roses
and other pretty flowers which will never fade or
lose their beauty to the place where GOD had
prepared before Your Papaw Ross had even started up
the beautiful stair way to heaven lined
withbeautiful angels.
Yes your Uncle Eric was indeed loved by many people
and you should be very proud to have had him for a
uncle as he was no doubt very very proud to have you
for a niece.
Papaw Jim says that if nothing bad happens that we
will get to see each
other and get to have lots of fun together in June.
Papaw also helped me type today so I could tell you
more things'
Will close for now til next time with LOVE and HUGS
to YOU
{{{{{{{{{{{My friend BRANDI}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Kayla,

Date: Sun, 8
Feb 1998 18:00:54 -0800
Subject: Re: Just to say hello
Hello Kayla;
Nice to hear from you again, Kayla! I am so sorry
that your Mamaw is sick - we sure do know what that
is like! I have been doing a lot of fun stuff while
we were sick. We watched movies and I did lots
WORDSEARCH puzzles which I like to do a lot! We also
do a fun thing - we blow up a balloon and tie it in
a knot and then we gently bounce it back and forth
with each other. Even if you are sick - you can
usually play that a little bit and it helps to not
feel bad about being sick. Mommy says that playing
is like a good medicine.
Did your cousins' dog ever come home? I think about
them and it is sad - so I wondered about it. I am
glad you got the LION KING - it is a neat movie. I
have it too. I also have the computer CD game and I
like it a lot. When you come to visit - I will let
you play with it - you would like the SIMBA POUNCING
game!
It is a school night so I will close for now. I was
happy to hear from you again.
Mommy and I will pray for your Mamaw and hope that
she gets better. It takes a long time to feel right
again after that flu. Even I don't feel the same
yet! Are you feeling good?
Bye for now, Love and hugs {{{{{{{Kayla}}}}}}} ~
From, Brandi

Date: Tue,
10 Feb 1998 19:11:04 -0500
Dear Brandi
I came by to answer your mail and to check on Mamaw,
She is feeling a lot better. I want to thank you and
your Mommy for praying for her. It was nice to hear
from you also. My Papaw told my mother that I had
some mail but would not let any one open it till I
got here because it is just between the two of us
(you and me) :)
You do the same kind of stuff with your mommy that
mamaw and papaw do with me. If we run out of
balloons papaw slips into the kitchen and gets one
of mamaws gloves that she uses to clean with and
when he is gone she does the same thing so I guess
that is alright as long as both of them are in on
this little game. They are so much fun. Just wait
till you get to meet them.
Yes, I think playing like your mommy says is good
medicine. I really like the mamaw and papaw kind of
play medicine. Papaw has played with me most of my
life and lets me chose what games to play. I have
been doing a few crafts while mamaw is resting . No
my cousins' dog did not come and I think someone
stole it . It was a good dog. I will close now I
have go to my other home.
With Love and hugs{{{{Brandi}}}} ~ Kayla (Papaw
showed me how to hug you. )

Date: Fri,
13 Feb 1998 07:30:51 -0800
Dear Kayla;
We care and are happy to pray for our friends.
My Papaw told my mother that I had some mail but
would not let anyone open it till I got here. ---->
^Do you read our mail all by yourself? I don't think
I could do that when I was 6. You must be a good
reader! ---->
because it is just between the two of us (you and
me) :)----> ^But our
mail is not a secret - you told me you would like it
if we had a page on the internet - so our mail is
there - do you want me not to do that? Is it okay
with your parents and grandparents?
----> gets one of mamaws' gloves that she uses to
clean with ^---->
When I used to have to take seizure medicines -
until I was about 6, my mommy would have to take me
to the laboratory at the hospital so they could take
blood from my arm and see how much medicine was in
my blood every month. When they do that, it hurts...
but they were nice to me there. I would get a
sticker and a sucker and sometimes they would blow
up the glove they wear when ther use the needle on
your arm. They would blow it up and tie it and it
was like a funny balloon and we would play with it
that day! *smiles*
----> Just wait till you get to meet them. ^---->
We are looking forward to our June visit! Mommy said
if your papaw is comfortable driving in city
traffic, we could go to the National Zoo in
Washington D.C. !!! Buy there are lots of other
places to go too - so we plan to be with you all you
want! *S* It will be so much fun!
----> lets me chose what games to play.
^----> I like to
play card games. Do you like to play Uno? We play
that almost every night. Sometimes we play war with
regular cards, or OldMaid or Fish... But my favorite
is Uno. I also like to play games on my computer
while mommy works at her computer. And I like to
draw and color. I have my own big desk to use...
----> No my cousins' dog did not come and I think
someone stole it . ^---->
Oh, I am so sorry about that. She must be very, very
sad and probably keeps thinking it might come home.
Do you miss it too? I
have homework most nights after school, and so I
sometimes don't have time for the computer on
weeknights. I always do on weekends though. We are
praying for all of you since you got the flu too! It
was a terrible flu. My mommys' came back when she
was finished with her antibiotics - but not as bad
as the first time.
Love, Brandi

Dear Kayla;
I just got
home from school and I want to thank you for the
nice presents that you sent to us! My mommy loved
BUBBA... She saw him at Christmas-time and said she
wanted one a LOT! But she didn't get him for
herself. Then when you sent me two teddy-bears and
one of them was BUBBA, I told her she could have
that one. She says we can share him. I lvoed the
white one best anyway! I take him everywhere in the
house with me. I gave that one two names - Papaw
Jim, and FUZZY... It was a lot of fun to get that
surprise! Thank you for wanting to do it! I was
going 6to thank you this morning when I was writing
to you but the bus came first so I sent that letter
and came to tell you this part now. ~ Love, Brandi

Date: Mon,
16 Feb 1998 15:24:20 -0500
Subject: Re: HAPPY VALINTINES' DAY (Goofed on the
first one!)
Hi Brandi,
I have missed you. Thank you for sending me the
valentine. I cannot get to it because webtv does not
provide that service. Papaw will have to get me a
computer. I got a certificate from school today
because I got a 90 in my lab class where we have our
school computers.
LOVE KAYLA

Date: Mon,
16 Feb 1998 16:11:51 -0800
Subject: Re: HAPPY VALINTINES' DAY (Goofed on the
first one!)
Dear Kayla;
Hi! I am sorry that your Valentine didn't open. Did
you get the ones we sent in the package? We were at
my greatgrandparents yesterday and while we were
there, mommy bought a carpet sweeper from
Great-grandma. He mother sells Stanley products and
we buy them from them when we need things. It was a
Stanley sweeper and I just love using it on the
carpets.
Love, Brandi

Date: Thu,
19 Feb 1998 20:27:49 -0500
Subject: THANK YOU!!!
Dear Brandi,
I came to see Papaw and mamaw. I went in the kitchen
and saw a big box. I ask mamaw "whose is
this?" she said "yours". I was
soooooo happy. I tore all the paper off and found
all my gifrs and our valentines. Thank you Thank
you. I like everything. I'm wearing my bracelet now.
It is so nice to have new friends. I like the
pictures too. Now I have one of my very own. Oh and
papaw and mamaw like their things also. I have to go
to bed now.
{{{{{{Brandi and mommy}}}}}} Love Kayla

Date: Tue,
24 Feb 1998 15:36:47 -0500
Subject: Re: Just to say hello
Hello Brandi,
this is Brenda Kayla's mommie. I was just reading
your journal about your daddy forgetting about
you....not to make you sad but I just wanted you to
know that I don't forget about you.... I think of
you alot. I know I don't really know you but
sometimes you don't have to know someone to know
that they are truly beautiful from the inside out.
You are a special beautiful little promising person
and you are loved by many. You have stole our hearts
and we have never met you. You should hold your head
high and be proud of yourself you have overcome
amazing
odds and are truly wonderful. My sweet precious
Kayla thinks the world of you too. You are her
special friend. She doesn't live close to any
children she can play with alot. Except for she sees
her friends at school. She says hello and that she
loves you. Thank you for the gifts you sent her that
was very sweet. Take Care sweetheart. Tell your
mommie I will answer her letter tom. I have run out
of time here today. I am sorry I haven't answered
yet. ~ Love, Brenda

Date: Wed,
25 Feb 1998 18:18:53 -0800
Subject: Sorry I was so long writing back!
Dear Kayla and your Mommy Brenda;
Thank you for writing to me. I am sorry that I took
so long to write back this time - but after mommy
was sick for so long - she has been real busy and
then we don't have much time on school nights to be
at the computer together. So here I am now.
We were going to write last weekend - but on
Saturday we went to visit my widowed Mamaw. We got
pizza from Pizza-Hut and took it over there and had
a pizza-party with her. Then she got some of her
peaches which she ~preserves in jars~ from the
peaches which grow in her yard on a tree - and some
Angel-Food cake which she saved from the dinner (she
put it into the freezer) after Papaws' funeral...
and we had dessert.
My Mamaws' name is Geraldine. Some people call her
Gerry. She is blind.... so she doesn't get out very
much. She does really good though, for being blind.
She can do most anything that people who see can do.
She had something called Retinitis Pigmentosa, and
my father and his uncle and grandmother and the rest
of that side of the family mostly went blind from it
too. It doesn't happen when you are young. It begins
to happen when you are about twenty and then
sometimes it happens real slow and sometimes pretty
fast... you just see less and less and then are
blind. I know that it is something that really might
happen to me... Mommy has explained about ~genes~
that we can get from our family. If I do have to go
blind like all of them, I hope that it happens
slower and not faster. Because I like to see things
and I love to read very much. I have heard that you
can learn to read with your hands...
The next day we went to my Great-Grammas' and Great
Grandpas' house for that day (Sunday) like last week
- so we were gone out all weekend too! We loved the
presents you sent to us a LOT - my mommy takes
BUBBA-BEAR everywhere a lot to show him to people
and when they hear him they just giggle and laugh
and like him a lot too. I take Fuzzy-Papaw-Bear
around some too - but not everywhere because he is
white and I don't want him to get dirty. He sleeps
up in my bunk-bed with me and some other bears and
things.
You will my little doggie ChiCho. He only weighs 3
pounds. The other two dogs are much bigger - but
they all play and have fun together.... I am so
excited that you are coming to visit with us for a
week maybe this summer in June! We will have a lot
of fun doing things together, don't you think?
It is getting late now and I have to get ready for
bed so we can watch The WALTONS together. I like to
snuggle with my mommy before bedtime.... Sometimes
on Friday and Saturday nights, I fall asleep in her
bed and spend the
night in her room. We make popcorn on those nights
and eat sliced-up apples too. I like the weekends
best.
Love from, Brandi

Date: Sat,
28 Feb 1998 14:53:53 -0500
Subject: Hope you are enjoying the weekend!
Dear Brandi,
I was glad to get your letter. We have been busy
too. My mother and daddy are looking for a new place
to live. They have found a place they like really
well but don,t know if they will be able to buy it
yet. It is near a creek and has lots of room for me
to play and a good place for our dogs. I'm sure I
will like your ChiCo. I know a lady that has a tiny
dog. It can sit in her hand it is so small. It has
it's own room and sleeps in a playpen at night. I am
looking forward to meeting you this summer. My
mother may come too. Daddy will be working. I am
glad you like Bubba Bear and Fuzzy Papaw Bear. I
like my Bubba Bear too. I bring him with me when I
am at Papaw and Mamaws' I bet Your mamaw Gerry had
fun eating pizza with you and mommy. I love pizza.
Sometimes I even eat it for breakfast. How neat to
have a peach tree in your Mamaw's yard. My mamaw
preserves food in jars too. She likes to preserve
beans, tomatoes and fruit. She also likes to make
jelly and jams.
I am sorry so many of your family are blind but I am
happy to know your mamaw has learned how to do
things anyway. You may not have the genes that cause
the problem. It is good to know that blind people
can learn to read with their hands isn't it?
I think mamaw may let me play outside for a little
while. That is if I don't start coughing too much.
Papaw is taking a nap. He has a 24/7 beeper from his
work this week. Sometimes he gets very little sleep.
Write when you and mommy have time. ~
Love Kayla

Date: Fri, 6
Mar 1998 15:40:10 -0800
Dear Kayla;
This was a busy week and I didn't have time to write
I am sorry about it though.
I Heard that you had an earache - I know that hurts
really bad. I hope you are better now and will have
fun on the weekend. They are my favorite times to
have fun and we don't have to go to bed so early.
Will your new house be closer to your Mamaw and
Papaw? I hope you will like it - Do you get a chance
to help pick it out? I have always lived here in
this house and I would never want to ever move out
of it either. Will there be more kids for you to
play with? I hope so....
We will be a lot of us if your mother comes too -
that will be fun!
I sometimes eat Pizza for breakfast too - even cold
or
heated up in the microwave.
ChiCho has a little pen - but he sleeps with my
mommy and we only put him in it when we have to
leave him home alone - so he won't get scared.
Sometimes we put him in there when he has been
naughty too.
Mommy says your Mamaw doesn't feel good again
either. I hope she gets better real soon too. I just
got home from school and an going to go and play
now. If you were here we could go out and play
together if your ear wasn't hurting.
I am glad you have a Bubba Bear too. He is so cute.
Love, from Brandi

Date: Sun, 8
Mar 1998 15:17:21 -0500
Dear Brandi,
It has taken me a long time to answer your letter. I
had some warts treated and it was hard for me to sit
for several days. I had some on the back of my legs.
They feel better now. My earache is better.
Yesterday papaw and mamaw took me to McDonalds so I
could play in the play room and to eat when I
finished playing. I had a lot of fun. I made a new
friend. Her name is Kati. Wish you could have been
here too. I was really tired because I played for a
long time.
We don't know yet where our new home will be. One
place we all liked we may not be able to get because
my dad hurt his hand really bad and can't work for
at least 3 months.
I lived in the same house for 6 years and it was
hard for me to move but I wanted to be with my
mother and dad.
I want to play with ChiCho when we visit. I hope my
mother can come too. She loves animals like we do.
Mamaw is feeling better and has played with me a
lot. We had to play inside because it has been
raining. I would like to play with you outside.
Do you like to swim? Do you have a swimming pool
nearby? I like to swim. My mother will be coming to
get me in a little while. I will be back next
weekend or maybe before. Have a good week at school.
Love from your friend Kayla {{{{{{{Brandi}}}}}}

Date: Tue,
17 Mar 1998 20:33:42 -0800
Hello Kayla;
Gosh, it took me too long to answer you, I know. I
hope you will forgive me. We have not had much time
lately. There are too many things to do. Mow that
mommy can drive again, we go to my
great-grandparents and we go to my Mamaws' to visit
her too since she is living alone and we want to
check on her and be sure that everything
is okay over there. I will not take so long next
time. When mommy had to stay in bed - we did our
mail there and didn't have so many other things to
do. We are so glad that your ear is better.
We go to MacDonalds some, but I like playing in the
BurgerKing playground too, Do you? Well, it is a
school night and I have to go to bed now Kayla. I
will answer you quicker next time you write. ~ Love,
Brandi

Date: Sun,
22 Mar 1998 18:05:02 -0500
Dear Brandi,
Today I went to Biltmore Square Mall.I wish you were
here and we could go to the Asheville McDonalds
Playground. Our McDonalds has an indoor Playground.
Our Burger King only has an outdoor Playground. That
is why I go to McDonalds in the winter. I got to
play with my cousin Hannah yesterday at my Grans
house. I also got to see her little brother. He is 5
weeks old. My Great Aunt Judy was here to take Gran
home with her. ~ your friend KAYLA.

Date: Sat, 4
Apr 1998 12:19:58 -0800
Dear Kayla;
I am sorry that it took me so long to write back.
When the weather was nice I played outside after
school and then there wasn't any time for the
computer! So I didn't even turn it on. Today it is
raining out and so I am at the computer. I think
when school is out we will be able to write more,
don't you? I hope your ears and everything are all
right now. I did not miss even one day this quarter
- and that is the first time since I started school
(when I was three years old) that I did that!!! I
think I am getting healthier now.
I am glad you had fun at the mall and with your
cousin. I think we will have a lot of fun playing
here when you come too. Playgrounds inside of
McDonalds are neat.
Love, Brandi

Date: Sat, 4 Apr 1998
14:13:19 -0500
Dear Brandi,
I like you. Last week I went on a field trip with
Mr. Ezelle from my school. Some of my class went us
and the rest of my class stayed at school. We went
to Indian Night Sky and Busy Town. We had fun. We
loved it!!
Good for you not missing any school days this
quarter. My ears are well now but I coughed all
night last night. I have a doctors appointment on
Monday.
I like to be outside when the weather is nice. Last
weekend we walked for 1 and 1/2 miles in the woods.
The next day we went to the lake to feed the ducks,
geese and killdeer. Some of the geese took bread
from my hand. One of the geese had my fingers in his
beak. We also saw wild turkeys. One of the turkeys
is an albino. They come out in a field near my papaw
and mamaw's house to eat.
It is cloudy here today but no rain yet. We are
going to go grocery shopping in a little while. ~
Your Friend, KAYLA

Date: Sun, 5
Apr 1998 18:30:36 -0800
Hello Kayla;
My cousin Beth moved here now and we play together.
She is in the fifth grade. She goes to church with
us too, we pick her up and we also pick up my Mamaw
who is blind. They like going to our church. Beth
lives in a townhouse with her mother and father and
little brother, Zachary. It is still nice outside,
so I am going to go back out and play. I just
finished eating spaghetti and meatballs for my
dinner. Mommy bought a big box of grapefruit from my
cousin Jason who was selling it for his school. I
LOVE grapefruit. Do you like it? We will be having
three-fold-Holy-Communion at our church on Thursday.
We are Brethren, and two times a year we do this
special communion. We eat bread and meat and have
communion and we wash each others' feet like Jesus
did with His disciples. We have communion at other
times too - but not with the foot-washing except
these two times. Last year was the first time I did
it with Mommy. My mother came with us that time. Do
you do that? We will be going to a Sun-rise service
too, on Sunday. Then we have donuts and fruit and
juice and stuff like that afterwards in the church
downstairs where the Sunday school rooms are. Then
we have regular church and Sunday school after that.
We go to my Great-grandparents house for Easter
dinner. This will be a busy week. Do you have school
Friday? We don't.
I have to go now before it gets cool outside. It is
already late but it doesn't look like it because
they changed the clocks forward. I do not like when
they change the clocks.
Love, Brandi

Date: Wed, 8
Apr 1998 16:11:47 -0400
Hello Brandi,
We have been very busy. Mamaw and I have been doing
crafts and a lot of baking. Today we went to Toys
"R"Us and got WishBone. I have been
wanting him for a while. We got my cousin Jensie a
rabbit that plays music and sings also a baby chick
that cheeps. I am glad you can play with your cousin
Beth. Today is very beautiful. We are going for a
walk in the woods after we finish this letter. We
will be glad when we can swim every day.
Tomorrow I am going on a field trip with my class. I
am looking forward to that. One day next week our
grandparents are invited to eat lunch with us at
school. My mamaw will be coming to eat with us.
Papaw will be working or he would come too.
No I don't like grapefruit. I like applesauce but
not many fruits.
We are Southern Missionary Baptist . We observe The
Lords Supper. We have unleavened bread and grape
juice instead of wine. We do not have communion or
foot washing. There are many sun-rise services in
our area. A lot of the churches have combined
services. We usually have a family gathering at my
Grans house for Easter Sunday Dinner. This year Gran
is in Va. We will be having dinner at mamaw and
papaws or go on a family picnic if the weather is
nice and everyone can get together. We are not
familiar with Brethren. Would you like to tell us
more about your church?
Daylight Savings Time is hard to get used to. I wish
they would just leave it the same all the time. Hope
you are having fun playing. ~ Your Friend, Kayla

Date: Mon,
13 Apr 1998 09:41:34 -0800
Subject: Monday after Easter
Hello Kayla;
I haven't seen the WishBone toy but I did see the
television show before. He is cute. I saw that they
have a NIGHT-TIME Bubba bear now! He looks cute too!
Did you get one of him? I have one of those chicks
that ~chirps. I like going to Toys-R-Us - it is a
fun place.
We have been very busy too! We have lots of stuff to
do in the yard this time of year and I love to play
outside! We filled the pool and I was so excited -
and then it leaked right back to the hose-line - so
something wasn't sealed up right and today my Aunt
Jeanne is coming over to re-do it again. When they
took the thumb-joints out of my mommys' hands -
there are some things she can't do anymore... so my
Aunt Jeanne does them for her. Do you have a
swimming pool too? We are going on a field trip when
I go back to school Tuesday. We are going to a great
big Milk Dairy Plant - "Shennandoahs'
Pride"!!! I am looking so forward to it there!
I like going places like that! We drink their milk
at school every day. We are going to go in a freezer
room, but my teacher said that I can't go in there
because of my Asthma. We will also go into a
refrigerator room which is not as cold so she says I
can go in there with them. Our parents are ALWAYS
invited any day they want to have lunch with us at
school, so my mommy comes one day a week to eat with
me. *S* I like that.
We went to the Sunrise service yesterday. We had to
get up at 4:30. Mommy had to wake me up 5 times
before we got out of bed! After the service we had
donuts and muffins and mornings. We always go to the
first (early) one. Then they have Sunday school and
then another service. We always stay for Sunday
school. Mommy and I like that a lot! We also take my
mamaw now and she is liking it very much. She laughs
more and is having fun more than I remember before
now. She is not baptized yet even. Mommy and I are
praying for her to do that. She likes going to
church a lot with us! She even came to the communion
service. Beth doesn't even know much at all about
Jesus - on the way to church Sunday, mommy asked her
if she knew what Easter meant and why we have it -
and Beth did not even know! So she told her on the
way there....We have never known Beth until she
moved here last month! Mommy says that some things
take time to do. I pray that there will be time for
both her and my mamaw to be saved before Jesus comes
back. Did I tell you that my mamaw is blind? We had
a really nice Easter Sunday dinner with my mommys'
parents (my great-grandparents). I got sick and had
a fever, but mommy gave me some Motrin and I slept
all the way until dinner was ready and then I got up
and ate and feel fine ever since. I was more tired
though.
My aunt and uncle and cousins just got here so I
have to go... ~ Love, Brandi

Date: Sun,
19 Apr 1998 15:46:20 -0400
Hi Brandi,
Kayla wanted me to help her write you a letter so
here I am. It is rainy here and a little chilly. She
goes back to school tom. her Easter break is over
for now. Please tell your mommie thank you for all
the neat things she has sent to me. I will try to
write her soon I have been really busy lately trying
to get things cleaned up and moving. We hope you are
well and happy and we will write you soon. Thank you
all for your friendship and Love. Til next time ~
Love, Kayla and Brenda

Date: Sun,
19 Apr 1998 17:05:38 -0400
Subject: Sunday 4-19-98
Dear Brandi,
I hope you are still well and playing outside with
your cousins. You had to get up really early for The
Sunrise Service. I am glad you had a good time at
you Great Grandparents house. I have to go back to
school tomorrow from spring break. Have you been to
the Diary Plant yet? I did not know you had Asthma.
Is it under controll most of the time?
I am glad you told Beth about The Resurrection. I
hope your grandmother will soon accept Jesus as her
Saviour and be baptized.
Did your Aunt Jeanne get the pool leaks stopped for
your mommy? No I do not have the nighttime Bubba. I
sleep with WishBone. I like him a lot. My cousin
Jensie and her mother have gone to Daytonia Florida
for the week.
I have to go now, ~ Your Friend, Kayla

Date: Sun,
19 Apr 1998 18:11:42 -0800
Hello Kayla;
It is raining here too. Really hard! Lots and lots
of rain for two days. Mommy was wishing that she got
all her flowers planted but some of them are still
in Erics' memorial under the deck. We were going to
catch up my journal here - but it keeps beginning to
thunder sometimes and then we disconnect from the
internet. I hope that you
had a nice resurrection day at your home. It was
nice here. We went to my great-grandparents house
and had dinner with them after church, We were at
church for almost 5 hours. I
fell off of a chair today and cut my mouth. It
stopped bleeding real fast though but it is swollen
some now. Then, I did a bad thing this afternoon. I
wanted to get my own soup (mommy made us a big pot
of homemade chicken with rice and pasta soup - it is
delicious!). So I didn't even ask mommy, I just went
in there and started to get it with a big soup ladle
and a big bowl and the bowl slipped our of my hand
and splashed on me!
We put cold water on me and it stopped it right away
and they mommy put aloe-cream on me so there would
not be any chance of blisters just in case. It
scared me. It scared Peach and mommy even more! I
will not do something like that again. Sometimes I
think I can do more things than I really can do and
I should be careful to have someone with me to watch
and keep me safe. I should not have done that
without telling anybody and
being by myself.
I hope you will have a good week at school. We went
back on Tuesday. That was when I went to the Milk
dairy "Shenandoahs' Pride" It is
thundering again so I have to send this and close
now. ~ Love Brandi
 
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